In life, if you are a mom of twins, then you will be faced with a lot of unnecessary and unwanted emotions from out of nowhere. Few are through the source of people and places (like face book) while others are from self pity and inbuilt frustrations
Like, more often than not, I get an anger outburst at my husband when I see people with maids walking about in malls like they own it, unlike me, trying to locate my kids every five minutes and almost wanting to abandon them. Don't judge me. I once left them at make up kiosk while I went to try on clothes. Mariya had lipstick on her eye lids and Hussaina was applying nail polish on her toes without removing the socks. (cute right????)
Then, the time when people go on complaining about how difficult their child is (one in number) and all the time goes in feeding and bathing and attending to his/her tantrums coz he/she is so STUBBORN and that is why they could not callback or attend (blah shit). I want to punch you all in the face. To all these people....Firstly, understand your audience!!! (a twin mom) and secondly dont assume that my kids are so quiet and obedient just coz they look so innocent and just coz I choose to not yell at them in public. And the worst kind are those people who wonder why do I even bother coming out of the house with my jing bang, and they wouldn't if they had even one kid let alone twins.
And, why all that judgement, if I leave the kids at the baby sitters for a night out or to catch a movie. WHY!!!!
Next, I would like to admit that I secretly start pitying and eventually being mad and angry at people who are getting married or getting pregnant... I want to yell at them "ARE YOU STUPID?? DO YOU NOT LIKE YOUR LIFE??" . Please don't jump to conclusions, just letting you know that my husband is amazing and extremely supportive and my kids are adorable and never stop amusing me, its me!! Not them!!
Lastly, stop those facebook check ins to your exotic vacations (Spain, greece, Las Vegas and all that), while am struggling to make it to the salon once in six months.
I rest my case.
Thanks but no thanks.
